Normally every teenage girl wishes to have a certain lifestyle where she can buy and get everything she wants. Go to such astonishing places that no one has ever been before, or just wherever her hankering would take her precious feet to. Loves being adored and complimented. Fetched up in the list, the stereotype must have that "boyfriend" who she thinks would meet her expectations to also achieve a perfect relationship.
Girls like surprises. Little cute things absolutely catch their attention! Gals do get jealous and insecure. Afraid of being rejected and turned down (Like who wants to?). They oftentimes need assurance, want to be comforted most of the time. They go oh-so-crazy to awe-inspiring creatures! Dainty are the velvety-inspired collections, lacy and ethereal motifs that look exquisite to the eyes of each lady. Girls want to look beautiful. They have high demands for shoes, bags and dresses and to anywhere the word "SALE" there is. Sometimes the taste also depends upon her ideals, whether it be girly or not. Yet in every woman's heart are the things which naturally go the way as they are.
But would those make everything so typical?
Speaking of, I find those qualities to be true. Just like I said, normally every girl feels the same way too. I've felt and dreamed all of those things as well. Once in a while I'm like that and here and there not. But I also do my best to divert that mentality into something much more significant that I should do. As I grow up, I can suddenly realize quite there are things that don't have to be or just couldn't be paired up perfectly in one's preferred living just to come up with what isn't available, or plainly because she wants it that way. You'll know it as you grow up and start to think a little mature. But I don't generalize. We all live in different norms in life. That person may be happy with that, the other one might not be glad with how it goes. It's totally different.
You just have to let it and understand the wisdom there you really don't have to get everything you want in life and they won't always go the way you want them to be. At some point, you're better off without them.
Maybe it's not for you now, probably sooner or never. Not all that you wish could be given to you because you want it. There will be times you'd feel unimportant to the society and that you are incapable. You may not be treated or given the rarest of the opportunities like those that for a royal princess or just do what an ordinary girl likes to do and wants to feel. But what else could be comelier than a woman though born with disabilities, burdens and imperfections yet girded up with the love of God, the trust and confidence of her family and friends in her as the basis of strength that keep her going? Sweet. It's something extraordinary.
Materialistic possessions? It's alright to aspire them as long as you live within your means, you use them in a good purpose and you don't get too vain. Wearing nice and clean clothes that are presentable enough is fine as it is part of a person's personality. Occasional purchasing of stuff is okay if it won't get off the limit. But nah, still they wither away and you cannot take them with you in the next life. Dreaming of a perfect boyfriend? A perfect relationship could also be defined when the two of you are completely opposites yet you can handle each other very well. Remember, opposites attract. That's where the spark is! :)) However why not dream instead of a worthy eternal companion who will marry you for eternity and together with your children will live in your home sweet home *giggles*. A fair and flawless body? The beauty of a person who has a kind and ginormous heart is definitely beyond compare to any physical attractiveness.
Anyhow girls are girls created to bring about color and vibrancy everywhere! Let's always send off charm in our own good and uplifting way! ;)
~ Btw I know that even though how much I try I can't be Edward Cullen's girlfriend instead of Bella to climb me up the tallest tree. I'd never have a Bumblebee car transforming into a robot for real. Will not have pets who could talk endlessly like Garfield and Scooby-Doo. See? You can't really get all that you want! =P
But the hope suddenly returns.. Could I possibly be David Archuleta's girl when he finally comes back from his mission? Kidding!!! :D ~
Random thoughts >>> Let the poll roll in our minds!
