Surely you weren't created for the purpose of having to portray a replica of how your best friend shows his humor, not a bit to impress others by perfectly imitating on how the most popular girls in school do their hairdos and make-ups and that, and those. So why waste time comparing and messing up the whole lot of your self-esteem making trouble what others can do with what you can only do? Or might get lost nowhere with what the people around are bringing about today that you're probably doing too/not doing for the rest of your life?
The answer would be it will be much better if we live our own good pursuits independently away from the you gotta be like that or you should have been like them pressure that would only complicate and destroy the peace in our inner beings. Rowdy voices that are very distracting! Zzzzzz. Snares and gambits that will only divert your right focus to rubbish things. We were distinctly created from each other ever since the world began. Remember? Apparently there were two separate beings, Adam and Eve. Noah was commanded to build an ark. Moses upon the power of God was able to divide the Red Sea for a great purpose. Just like them, we were given different tasks to carry out. Believe in your capacity and don't ever forget to make the best out of it! And please, stop being bothered every now and then that your seatmate's cheating tactics to answer the test questionnaires would lessen your probability of passing the exam. Just because you didn't cheat. Nope.
My dear friend, let us always remember that the only way to succeed is to not worry about what anyone else is doing. What a great principle we can marvel in ourselves. Let us go on and face challenges without an atom of confusion that this life run, is definitely not an Olympic track of you-and-your-fellow competition. If we choose to get ourselves an eye of being more concerned with what everyone is doing that needs help for improvement, rather than getting affected or conscious of what others might think or the drawbacks and deficiencies that we might observe, this world will be a much better place to live in! Imagine an environment with no envy and "crab mentality." Look beyond a sphere where heartaches, rivalries and hatred have no place to dwell in. How d'ya feel about it? Isn't it perfect like we're living up above clouds embraced by Heaven's love?
When you're contented and happy with the sole intention of lending your time, effort and talents by helping and serving others, you'll always feel good about yourself. You will become closer to Heavenly Father in a way that you'd only understand if you engage in doing selfless acts. The sweet spirit will radiate in your countenance. Through your glowing light and example, your personal strength could be the source of others' strength too. As you do so, they will see that BIG HEART in you. In that case, you can become an instrument of change in bringing upon the light of the torch to those who are being drawn back from spiritual hunger. With God, nothing is impossible and everything is possible.
So why don't we try minding instead what anyone else is doing, that we should have been doing also so we can become blessings to the lives of others too? Let's rather think about it. :)
