When you are in love, things are ten times a lot funnier than with what they were just like before; inspires you no matter how hard the struggle would be like; gives you a glow and a bloom into apparent rosy blushes; sometimes inexpressible in words because it is only by how you feel, that has the right and ability to tell the whole universe how good it is when a person started to love someone. This is my-your-our so-called love. It destroys yet it heals. It can be painful but it can also be a relief. Brings sick glances to those who do not know how to deal with it and endearment to those who believe in the power of it. It is a feeling like no other, a four-letter word that created history.
Do you wonder what made me push through with this topic? If you will see, I am not much being a love analyst nor that kind who is fond of daydreaming of having a boyfriend nowadays. Little did you know, it was all because of the fiction novel I read just a few days ago entitled 'My Name is Memory' which struck me. The story was about the two lovers who had crossed each other's path during the early centuries that brought an unpredictable twist when they met again in the modern days. I don't say that once you read it, you are going to like it too. We all have different tastes in love stories like that, we all know. It just happened that I was somehow indulged in that story. But anyway you can just look for the summary of the book in the internet if you want to know more about it, and just in case I wasn't able to tell you exactly a little background of the story as I mentioned above. So I was inspired(even before then) to write a blog about-- how it feels to love and be loved by a special someone, what it conquers and how it changes a person in this sometimes love-hate relationship that has been going on between people who are no more no less, in love with each other.
When you truly love someone, it is true that you disregard all the bad characteristics and you look for his positive traits. You accept him for who he really is as a person, no matter how rich or poor he stands in life, and even how he looks in his superficial appearance-- because you simply have understood how the inside outshines the outside. You will do whatever it takes to make the one you love happy, you will want to prove that person he made the right choice when he chose to love you and will show him how important he really is in your life. You treasure your moments together and there is not a time when you would want to be apart from each other even for a short period of time.
Love changes the way you see things. Like have you ever had a change in a manner of yours when you actually acted like a little child before but now you seem to gather more olden years because maturity suddenly boomed into you? Or have you ever thought of having a total make-over in yourself or doing your best in every single little thing like improving your character, enhancing your talents and studying hard simply because you want to become that better person who is deserving enough for the one you love? Yes, because it gives you motivation to change. Love really has the ability to change the way you sit and talk and eat and groom yourself and more! How powerful it is, isn't?
They say true love waits and comes in due time. They say it is a destiny. Others tell love can be found everywhere and anytime, it may not be today or tomorrow but in God's right time. It will come unexpectedly and surprisingly in an instance when it is exactly just right for you to encounter. Likewise, true love and infatuation are usually being interchanged by people. I say, when there is an infatuation, it is only intended for the mean time and is temporary. You might be wrong in being in love once you feel it, it is in other words just a physical admiration or a crush as what we call it. I am not judging or much going ahead of what is the difference between the two because still, there are cases when infatuation leads to real love. But generally speaking when you infatuate, you are just having an intense fondness and is somewhat transitory. Unlike when you really love, it is unconditional and permanent to a person whom you can wholeheartedly call the reason why you still want to live for the rest of your life. The attractiveness lies in the overall character. And no matter what happens, either he develops a contagious disease or whether he loses his job that could lead to the corruption of all his riches, you still love him. :)
"Love is kind and wholesome. To love is to give, not to take. To love is to serve, not to exploit." -- Pres. Spencer W. Kimball
Love conquers everything, you will come to know it once you get to that lasting part. Oh what a heartache it would be when love is just one-sided, when the one you love doesn't love you back. It is like a single block being pulled out from the middle stack and the rest collided. However, there is nothing more good than being with the person whom you have chosen to share eternity with. Whom you wished to see before you go to sleep and when you wake up. Who gives you hundreds of reasons to cry, yet millions of reasons to smile. Indeed, priceless.
To what love means, to sacrifice. To what love means, to sometimes let go. To what love means, is to be with that only person whom you share the same feelings with, the feeling that only the heart can tell. To what love means, is to say "I Love You."
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